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Coworkers must be included in the coaching process because lasting improvement requires the entire system to evolve. But as much as coworkers may have hated the behavior the alpha is learning to modify, at least it was predictable.

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After someone discloses that he periodically lobs grenades into meetings but intends to stop, we all have permission to call him on it. And we. Some people might want to settle the score, others may be expecting the alpha to finally acknowledge all their hard work, and some may even want the soap opera to continue.

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